fairevil               

that might as well be a blessing in disguise.

i'm appalled at the way you handled the situation.

it was your last chance of proving yourself to me that you can be trusted on a professional level, not to even mention on a personal level.

but i probably shouldn't even have given you that little chance, because deep down inside, i knew it was going to be the same outcome anyways.

and we parted with you owing me something.
something that you haven't yet learnt to give, probably because you take us for granted so much.
something that you should have given without any prompting.
something that any other normal decent human being would do.
something that even my dog knows how to do.

you mentioned something about learning how to communicate properly.
it starts from this thing that i mentioned.
this thing that you owe me, your brother tim, his wife, and my wife.
and until you do this thing, i will cease to communicate with you.

because its time you learnt by yourself, and not be taught by others.

this week marks the beginning of a new era.

you don't know what lies ahead until you take the step forward.
and step forward, i shall.

during a certain mooncake festival.

she's got my devil.

grrr...

my iphone 3gs is still in perfect condition and they release iphone 4. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

that you can put a group of 10 normal women staying together in a house, and

1 month later you'll find:

2 dead women, because one of them could not stand the other and killed her in a fit of rage.
the other 8 women killed the killer to protect themselves.
total: 8 women left

2 months later, you'll find:

a clique of 5 women who mistreat and look down upon the other 3 women.
out of the 3 women, 1 woman is a misfit and doesn't care about anything. keeps to herself.
the remaining 2 women are clinging onto each other for dear life.
total: 8 women left

3 months later, you'll find:

a clique of 4 women who mistreat and look down upon the other 3 women.
there were originally 5 women in this group but the prettiest woman in the group has been cast out of the clique.
the prettiest woman has no choice but to hang out with the 2 women who were clinging onto each other for dear life. the 2 women accepted her reluctantly.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 8 women left

4 months later, you'll find:
the clique of 4 women have gained a sense of self superiority made the 3 women their slaves.
the 3 of them are tortured frequently.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 8 women left

5 months later, you'll find:
the clique of 4 women and 2 slaves. 1 slave died from the torture.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 7 women left

6 months later, you'll find:
the clique of 4 women and 1 slave. 1 more slave died from the torture.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 6 women left

7 months later, you'll find:
3 women left in the clique of 4. the last remaining slave could not stand the torture anymore and killed 1 of the 4 before committing suicide.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 4 women left

8 months later, you'll find:
2 women plotting against the 3rd woman because the 3rd woman said something bad about the 1st woman to the 2nd woman and the 2nd woman proceeded to rat on her to the 1st woman.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 4 women left

9 months later, you'll find:
the 3rd woman dead after being poisoned by the 1st and 2nd woman.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 3 women left

10 months later, you'll find:
the 1st and 2nd woman are not on speaking terms after arguing how to deal with the misfit woman keeping to herself. 1st woman wants to get rid of the misfit because she is not comfortable with the misfit staying in the house and keeping to herself. 2nd woman wants to befriend the misfit because she actually cannot stand the 1st woman and wants to secretly make use of a relationship with the misfit to get rid of the 1st woman.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 3 women left

11 months later, you'll find:
1st and 2nd woman had a major argument over a missing shoe followed by a catfight. both are bleeding profusely from their injuries and screaming for the misfit to help them.
the misfit still keeping to herself.
total: 2 dying women and 1 woman left

12 months later, you'll find:
1st and 2nd woman died, and that the misfit was actually a man who had a sex change into a woman.
total: 0 women left




and that you can put a group of 10 normal men staying together in a house and 1 year later, you'll find:

a group of 10 normal men, with beer cans and dirty clothes all over the place, but still a group of 10 normal men.

the son.

this is the first role that you learn.
responsibilities in the family, filial piety.
you watch and learn from your parents, how they treat their parents, and subconsciously make a mental note of how you should do the same for them in their later years.


the husband.

the second role that you learn.
how to treat your spouse right, taking care of her needs, understanding how she thinks and co-existing as a strong loving unit ready to face the future together, for better or worse.


the father.

the most significant role in your life.
a process that is ongoing for the rest of your life, that changes constantly and forces you to rethink your stance on how you want to help shape the future of your next generation.


the man.

put these three roles together and you create the man, who has to fulfill three roles simultaneously. there will be times where he is forced to make difficult decisions that seemingly conflicts one particular role for the sake of another, and there is no better time to have the full understanding of his family.

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